I can find everyday things to be very sexy. I can find sex in the everyday. Some are obvious, others not so much.
I use to think the sexiest thing in the world was to catch a glimmer of a man's boxer shorts over the top of his jeans. Just enough to see what color/patteren they were. nothing more than a couple hair widths of a glimmer. Then the whole fashion trend of pants around a man's knees started. ruined the whole thing. Now it's the man rubbing his belly nonchalantly that does it.
A man rubbing his belly with his shirt raised so I can see his happy trail, yummy.
Candles melting/burning. To be in a room filled with only candlelight...mmm nice.
Moonlight. Enough said.
Full moon on a cloudless night.
Smells: The smell of a man, the scent of his cologne, the scent of his sweat, the scent of his soap on his skin after a shower.
A nice tailored suit.
Boxing. I love boxing. So primal. so sweaty. so hot. so wet.
music: either being in a dance club (gay dance club) with a great DJ and a heavy beat. God, you can smell the sex. If a man loves the old standards as much as I do, then you've got me. Sinatra, Billie, Ella, Otis, Sam, Elvis..and on and on..
humor. A man's gotta make me laugh. Have a witty come back, sarcasm (but not biting or mean) and get my humor (which is witty and sarcastic) gotta keep me laughing then we can get through anything.
Confidence, but not cockiness. Very sexy.
Teeth, lips and eyebrows. Some people are into asses, legs, arms. Me? it's lips, teeth and eyebrows. The teeth should be some shade of white. The lips, nice and full or a nice combo with the teeth. Eyebrows, there should be two. They are divorced and not speaking to one another. At the very least they are seperated.
white cotton sheets. Especially after sex and you're both naked and lieing together half covered and talking.
conversation. This is huge. If you can give me the mind fuck then forget about the other stuff it can be worked out. Give me conversation. This is true intimacy.
last phone call of the day. where you're lieing in bed talking for hours on the phone and learning about each other
a great dinner.
a sexy bra and panties. Especially when I'm the only one who knows what I have on under my work clothes
rain/thunderstorm. the smell of an approaching thunderstorm. Being caught in the rain.
summer. all hot and sweaty. the air is thick with humidity. Swimming in the heat of the night alone.
great fuck me shoes
having a man lay between my legs and wrapping my legs around him. (now I'm sure you all have another visual, but I am actually refering to when we are in bed or on a couch and not facing one another and his back is resting against my chest and I have him wrapped up between my legs and I am rubbing/playing with his head/hair
touching. When a person isn't afraid to show affection and receive affection in public or otherwise. Sitting at a bar and touching my leg ect. Not to be confused with the tasteless make-out session in public.
intelligence. being well read. great conversationalist. (told you it was a biggie) great at debating (not argueing)
when I am so connected with someone that there can be a room full of people, but neither one of us are aware of anyone else, but each other. There is no one else, but us. So very hot and sexy.
....tell me yours
